The day my 4-year-old declared war on my car: Emotional regulation in children
My four-year-old scratched my car with a stone and i am learning a thing or ten about emotional regulation.
Parenting through curiosity, not control
When my daughter turned our furniture into a drum kit, my first reaction was frustration. But beneath her banging was a powerful lesson in curiosity and connection. In this piece, I explore how children’s so-called “bad behaviour” often hides a deeper desire to explore, and how our job as parents is to guide that energy without shaming it.
Teaching your child to embrace mistakes with grace
When my daughter spilled juice, I chose to respond with grace instead of frustration. She calmly changed her wet pyjamas and even helped clean up. This moment reminded me that mistakes are part of learning, and how we respond shapes our children’s understanding of themselves.
The humanity of children: Why acknowledging their emotions matters
Parenting this way means choosing connection over control. It’s not about fixing emotions, but honoring them. When we respect their feelings, we teach them to respect themselves.